Comparing

“I hate to admit this, but I am mad at him” she said.



“Why?” I asked back with a wide open heart and ears.



“It doesn’t seem fair.” She responded.



I left silence for her to process her emotions without me needing to fill the space for her. 



“I have been working so hard for years on Spirit Communication and in less than a year he can see and engage with spirits” she said.



I left more silence.



“I know that I shouldn’t compare. But, it is hard.” she said.



“I get it.” I said back.



She looked down and away from my eye contact and down at my kitchen floor as she awkwardly shifted her body allowing the energy to move through her. 



“What you don’t always see is all of the behind the scenes work that happens. He spends every night immersed in spirit communication with me. He spends countless hours holding my ground while I disconnect from my body and work with the universe. He spends hours and hours listening to the meditations that we produce. He has sleepless nights when I am deep in a process and need his support. To be my partner, I have required indepth focus on wounds and healing, which he has relentlessly focused on. He has immersed himself in metaphysics and spirit for the past year. Everything in his life has changed. He changed his diet. He changed his exercise. He changed his career. He changed his living situation. He changed his mindset. He changed his life.”