I spend much of my day in divine feminine energy, both with receiving messages and with coaching clients in their own process and parenting my children. I learned a long time ago that when I am purposeful with which energy I am standing in, I get better results. If I am having a hard time connecting with divine masculine or divine feminine I will close my eyes, ground my energy and then visualize myself leaning to the right for masiculine or left for feminine. 

I stand in divine masculine energy when I am accomplishing and planning and producing but otherwise, I spend much of my time in divine feminine. Sometimes, I find that divine masculine energy needs to move through me to allow a balance for the volume of time that I am in divine feminine. 

One of my favorite parts about him is that he can soften and easily slip into his own divine feminine when I need to stand in my divine masuciline. He has a beautiful ability to flex and move and flow with me to keep and hold balance in our relationship, in our business and in our home. It is a dance that we do beautifully. There are no steps to learn or remember, the dance must be felt and the shifts in energy must come from intuition and I have never had a partner dance more beautifully with me.